adopters, foster dogs, fostering dogs, puppies

I Could Really Use Your Help

I could really use your help.

Up until now, pretty much every one of my fosters has belonged to a local rescue organization, like the Humane Society of Shenandoah County or Operation Paws for Homes.

With the current crew in my foster cottage, I am fostering for X-Port Paws. They are mainly a transport rescue organization. They save animals marked for euthanasia from shelters, find a receiving rescue, arrange for veterinary evaluation, care, and transport. It’s actually amazing how many lives they have saved, even though most of them they’ve never met in person.

When I wanted to save the dogs and puppies in my cottage from the euthanasia list at Memphis Animal Services, time was of the essence (we got Dani out with only hours to spare). I knew my local Humane Society didn’t have the resources for the medical care required (multiple dogs who need heartworm treatment, an amputation, one spay surgery, plus the risk always involved in pulling puppies). There wasn’t time to convince anyone at OPH to pull these animals, and it was unlikely they would since they are not rescue partners for Memphis, and they require extensive vetting and behavioral evaluation. I asked several other rescues, but no one could act quickly.

Only X-Port Paws was willing to trust my judgment that all of these dogs were worth saving, and also believed that I was capable of fostering them, seeing them through treatment, and finding homes for them (and also helping to raise the money they would need to pay for medical care).

So they stuck their necks out big time—and Nick and I did, too.

All of the dogs—Wishbone, Dani, Lima Bean—are very adoptable dogs, once we get them healthy. They are sweet, people-friendly, dog-friendly, well-mannered young dogs who will be wonderful family pets.

But now I need to start finding those families. I don’t have the reach of organizations like HSSC or OPH. I just have you. The dog-hearted people who follow my adventures in fostering, mostly from afar.

A smart Animal Control Officer and shelter director told me recently that, “It’s already a ‘no’ unless I ask.” His shelter is so supported by his community because of his willingness to ask for help. I’m taking a page out of his book and asking you, my dog-hearted community, for your help.

So, here goes.

If you don’t already follow me on Facebook, Instagram, or TikTok, I’d really love it if you would. And then once you do, if you could share my dogs and puppies to your networks, that would go a long way to getting the word out about them.

I plan to have some local adoption events, but I’m also willing to adopt to people within a reasonable distance and/or send them to a receiving rescue who will be better equipped to place them.

I also need chicken-free food and treats for Diamond and Lima Bean, they both have allergy issues that present in persistent skin problems. Those items aren’t cheap, and I’ve put a few on my Amazon wishlist for anyone who wants to support this work we’re doing.

Meanwhile, I’m going to get to work raising funds. Lima Bean has finished nursing, so in a few weeks she could have her amputation and spay surgery—if we can raise the funds. Watch for my fundraisers (please share those too) or if you want to donate now, you can send your gifts to X-Port Paws. Here’s the link: https://xportpaws.org/donate. Be sure to tell them it’s for Cara’s Foster Cottage dogs.

Updates on everybody:

Wishbone is going through his heartworm treatment at the vet as I write this. I can’t wait to get my hands on that sweet boy tonight and bring him home. I know he’ll be miserable for a bit, but this is the moment when his real life can begin. We’ll have to keep him calm and crated for the next few weeks and monitor his activity after that, but he’s ready for a home.

Wishbone is a darling, sweet, gentle boy with a funny personality and such a loving personality. He’s crate and house trained, walks well on a leash, is neutered, up to date on shots, great with EVERYONE (of all ages), and shy about other dogs, but warms up quickly.

Dani was moved to another foster home while I was on shelter tour, and Tina, her new foster mom, fell in love with her and wouldn’t give her back! So, Dani will stay with her through her heartworm treatment and recovery, as we work to find her a home.

This is making things much easier for me in the foster cottage and means Lima Bean can move out of the kitchen and into my office area with the other dogs.

Diamond is still looking for a home of her own. I put a post up on Another Good Dog Facebook page that has lots of pictures, info about her, and some of her funny videos.

I do think she’d be a great TikTok star! Please share that post to your networks (I’m really asky today, aren’t I?).

Lima Bean is finished nursing, so as soon as we raise the funds for her spay/amputation surgery, the sooner we can get to treating her heartworms. She already has that soft cough indicative of heartworms, so I’m anxious to get this process started.

This dog is incredibly loving. She simply melts into every person she meets. Nancy was here (and fell for LB, of course) and struggled to get pictures because Lima Bean would not leave space between them.

Last ask (I promise!)—the Beanie Babies are almost ready to go home! That went fast, didn’t it?

Help me get the word out about these gorgeous pups. They are healthy little butterballs who, like their mom, LOVE people. I’m gonna guess they will be as big as their mom when they grow up, but anyone who follows this blog knows I’m almost always wrong. Please spread the word. Anyone interested in adopting them should reach out to me (cara@wwldo.org) for information.

Shew. That wasn’t easy. Thanks in advance – I’m so grateful for this community and the support you give us in our foster and rescue work.

Until Each One Has a Home,

Cara

For information on my writing and books, visit CaraWrites.com.

My newest book, Who Will Let the Dogs Out: Stories and Solutions for Shelters and Rescues is a primer for those new to the cause, an invitation to get involved, and a source of inspiration for those already working tirelessly to save lives. With stories of successful shelters, innovative strategies, and the key ingredients for success—strong leadership, veterinary access, and community engagement—it’s a celebration of what’s working and a call to scale those solutions nationwide. Learn more and get your copy and/or send one to a shelter or rescue on our website. Also available in paperback and e-book on Amazon.

If you’d like regular updates of all our foster dogs past and present, plus occasional dog care/training tips, and occasional foster cat updates (!) be sure to join the Facebook group, Another Good Dog.

And if you’d like to know where all these dogs come from and how you can help solve the crisis of too many unwanted dogs in our shelters, visit WhoWillLetTheDogsOut.org and subscribe to our blog where we share stories of our travels to shelters, rescues, and dog pounds.

If you can’t get enough foster dog stories, check out my book: Another Good Dog: One Family and Fifty Foster Dogs. Or it’s a follow-up that takes you to the shelters in the south, One Hundred Dogs & Counting: One Woman, Ten Thousand Miles, and a Journey Into the Heart of Shelters and Rescues.

I love to hear from readers and dog-hearted people! Email me at carasueachterberg@gmail.com.

If you’d like to support the work we do (and save the rescue and me some money), shop our Amazon wishlist. We are currently in need of:

Chicken-free food and treats for Diamond and Lima Bean

probiotics

puppy food and puppy treats

High-quality treats and chew bone

Indestructible toys

If you’d like to take a vacation with your whole pack, consider visiting one of our two dog-WELCOMING vacation rentals. Visit BringDogs.com to learn more.

adopters, fosterdogs

Diamond is a Diamond

Many of you remember when Diamond came to stay with us last summer after a few traumatic months while her mom was homeless. She was in rough shape, and we agreed to house her while her mom accepted a spot in a homeless shelter for pregnant women.

We had Diamond spayed and addressed all her health and skin issues. It took me a few months to figure out the right diet to keep her allergies in check, but she’s been doing great for the last six months since we eliminated all chicken products from her diet.

The plan was for Diamond to go back with her mom once she got on her feet. That plan has been delayed repeatedly while her mom faced set back after set back. And now, finding affordable housing with a toddler and infant and 50 pound bulldog has proved elusive.

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Sometimes Fostering is Hard on the Heart

Fostering is often a lot of work, and always rewarding, but sometimes it’s also just plain heartbreaking.

Every time we welcome foster dogs or puppies, they are a mystery. They are most often strays, and lately, most have been pulled from the euthanasia list at an overcrowded shelter.

We don’t know their medical histories before the day of their intake at the shelter, but we do know they have often been subjected to neglect and rarely have had good nutrition, medical attention, or even basic care. They suffer physically, but emotionally as well.

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The foster cottage is FULL!

Having four adult dogs and four two week old puppies is requiring me to refine my juggling act.

At this juncture, none of the adult dogs can be loose in the cottage at the same time. So it’s a game of crate and rotate and walk and keep track of who hasn’t been out recently to potty and who needs snuggle time with me and what the best set up is to have quiet for my zoom call.

I make myself take several deep breaths and put on my ‘calm mama’ invisible cloak before entering the cottage. That helps tremendously. In the early days of my fostering career, I used to allow my anxiety over the situation and my frustration at my inability to instantly fix things to color my world. And the dogs picked up on that.

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Have I Gotten Myself in Over My Head?

Have I gotten myself in over my head? This is the question that rolled across my mind early this morning when I couldn’t sleep.

The last time I had this many dogs in the foster cottage, I was overwhelmed.

In fact, it was also four dogs and four puppies. Of course, those were basically feral dogs and worm-riddled puppies, so the physical work was overwhelming. After the seventh or eighth poopified crate, I’d come pretty close to quitting this whole foster gig.

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adopters, dog rescue, fosterdogs, heartworms, puppies

Rescue is a Roller Coaster

Rescue is always a roller coaster. But I tend to go with the most death-defying coasters (at least when it comes to rescuing, definitely not on real coasters!).

Lately, there have been too many situations that have made me angry, sad, and/or heart-broken because I am powerless to do anything about them. I wallow briefly, but then rally and look for situations where I can have an impact.

So, as weeks have gone by in which the news in my world and the larger world has kept me awake, twisting my insides, or leaving me emotionally spent, I started casting around for a dog to save. Maybe I can’t fix the world, but I can rescue a dog! (or maybe six…)

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foster dog looking for security out on walk
foster dogs, fostering dogs, heartworms

What a Difference Security Can Make

Wishbone is transforming before my eyes. Security makes all the difference. When he first arrived, he was skeletal and skittish and focused inward, curling up in a ball in his crate whenever he wasn’t eating.

foster dog looking for secuirty

I took him for very short walks, trying to venture further from the cottage each day, but going at his pace. In the foster cottage, we kept things quiet. He and Diamond take turns being loose/crated. After a week, he finally felt secure enough to stretch out and sleep soundly (snoring loudly!).

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adopters, dog rescue, foster dogs, rescue flight, Updates

Flying to Safety

Wishbone, our newest foster, flew in last night.

He makes a nice matching set with Diamond, my other foster. He is the same size as her but weighs about 25 pounds less. He is quite literally a walking skeleton. It’s easy to feel all of his bones.

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Jolly Jack is here! And Oh Boy is He Jolly!

Jolly Jack arrived on a transport from Memphis earlier this week. Through sheer timing and luck, we were able to get him into Anicira to be neutered on Wednesday, thanks to a little help from the Humane Society of Shenandoah County.

This pup is pretty much turn-key. JJ is already solidly housebroken (sigh of relief here), walks pretty well on a leash (considering he is still young and excitable), and is quiet in his crate (and kind of getting used to having to go in it).

Mostly, he is just a JOYFUL pup. His name is perfect.

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dog rescue, emergency transport, euthanasia, foster dogs, no-kill, shelters, transport, Who Will Let the Dogs Out

The Rescue of Jolly Jack

NOTE: This is a little different from my regular posts about fostering, but I hope you’ll read it. It may give you some insight into what is driving the number of dogs overwhelming our shelters. It will also introduce you to my next foster before he becomes my foster.

You wouldn’t think it would be hard to rescue a dog from a shelter that euthanizes 350 or more dogs a month. You’d think all I’d need to do is say, “I’ll save that one,” and they’d be, like, “Please take him.”

I met Jolly Jack ten days ago.

We were touring Memphis Animal Services. MAS is the only municipal shelter for all of Memphis, which is kind of insane if you think about it. It’s a big city – population of 620K (in 2023). I spent a day on its streets helping dozens of dogs in only a ten-block radius and I was lost. Having only one shelter to serve a population that size is unrealistic at best and dangerous at worst.

But back to MAS. We went there at the behest of a rescuer, Tori, who is, in all honesty, leaning hard toward the crazy. But if you met this woman you would think, “professional, attractive, smart,” you would not think this is a woman who spends her off hours desperately picking at any potential thread that might lead to saving a dog.

In her real job, which, honestly, I don’t know how she has time for, Tori is a Molecular Diagnostic Specialist working in genetic diagnostics. She met us at the shelter, and in the first ten minutes with her, she said in passing, “I’ve got syphilis in my car.”

I’ve followed Tori from a distance as she’s shared the horrifying posts of Critical Memphis Animals Facebook feed which share pictures and information about the dogs scheduled to be euthanized each week at MAS. (if you want to have your heart truly broken, follow that page).

At this moment in history, MAS had no director and is reeling from the fallout after several years of practicing managed intake and community sheltering. Specifically, they were following the programs and policies recommended to them by Best Friends Animal Society and HASS (Human Animal Support Services). In the name of creating the illusion of ‘saving them all’, these organizations and others have pushed shelters all over the country to manipulate their save rate by managing their intake and utilizing community sheltering.

Many of these practices put the onus for saving the animals on the people in the community rather than the people trained and dedicated to doing so. In theory, it sounds great; in reality, it is a disaster.

Managing your intake basically means deciding which dogs to take in and which to turn away. If someone wants to surrender their animals, the shelter may refuse to take the animal. Some shelters will refuse to take the animal for other reasons – size, breed, medical condition, age, behavior, or because they are full. Often, when the shelter is full, they will ‘close to intake’ which means animals can’t be brought in for any reason, and in some cases, ACOs will not even pick up strays.

Community sheltering means that if someone brings in a stray, they are asked to shelter the animal at their home and look for the owner, or if they can’t, to put it back where they found it. People wanting to surrender their animals are told to use websites like Home to Home to rehome their pet themselves.

Here’s the thing – If you only take in adoptable dogs, it’s pretty damn easy to be a ‘no-kill shelter.’ For the last few years, as more and more shelters have gone to managed intake, the numbers looked pretty good. Intakes were down and so was Euthanasia.

See the illusion? If you turn people away and suggest they ‘community shelter’ the animal they found, your intake stays low. If you refuse to take in cats because they are ‘self-sufficient’ on their own, your cat room doesn’t get overwhelmed. And if you only take in as many animals as you have room for, you don’t have to euthanize animals. Instead you warehouse animals.

This looks great on paper—Intake is down! Euthanasia is down! The plan is working.

The result in Memphis is that the streets are brimming with strays as the shelter turned away dog after dog after dog. To make what they were doing legal, the ordinance for the Animal Control Officers was changed.

Originally it read: Any dog which is in violation of any section of this subchapter, shall be seized and impounded by County Animal Control or any police officer of the city or any authorized city employee.

It was changed to read: Any dog which is in violation of any section of this subchapter, may be seized and impounded by County Animal Control or any police officer of the city or any authorized city employee.

Seems like a tiny change. Shall became may. But in that tiny change is the root of the crisis plaguing Memphis.

With this new dictate, ACOs in Memphis did not have to take any loose dogs. It was up to them. If it seemed hard, complicated, difficult, it was just as easy to leave the dog/s where they found them as to impound them and bring them to MAS.

So numbers in the shelter settled down. MAS was no longer the ‘high kill’ shelter everyone assumed they were. They were saving nearly every animal they took in. Meanwhile, dogs were left on the street to multiply.

And now, two years later, after the numbers have swelled and stray dogs have packed up and become dangerous and everyone is complaining about the number of animals on the street, MAS leadership is trying to reverse course, rejecting ‘managed intake’ practices and going back to where they started – trying to serve its citizens by taking in the stray, unwanted dogs.

After a controversy at the shelter, the newest director was fired, and since then, an interim director has been in charge. She is a kind woman who does care. Her background is in housing and she once headed Habitat for Humanity in the city. She has an expansive heart. And, honestly, having met her, I think she wants what is best for the city, its people, and its animals. But with no sheltering background, she can only do the best she knows.

There is a leadership vacuum in Memphis. Add to that a staffing shortage and a population of dogs swollen by the number of unspayed and unneutered strays on the streets and we are at a crisis point.

When we visited MAS, they had 330 dogs in the shelter. The shelter was built to house 150. Each week they euthanize about 100 dogs because they have to make room for the dogs coming in.

Enter Nancy and I with our good words, best intentions, and Nancy’s photography skills. We walked through the shelter on a tour led by Jessie, the volunteer coordinator, but the one person who responded to us. She wants to see good outcomes for these dogs. Despite the apathy and overwhelm surrounding her, she is working to save as many as she can.

We were also accompanied by Tori, and for part of the time, the Interim Director. We toured the shelter and met dogs, who all had about 2 weeks to find an adopter or rescue. After that, they would work their way onto the euthanasia list. In the month before our visit, the shelter took in 1150 animals and euthanized 398. So one in every three animals we met would be euthanized.

Dogs were doubled up. Guillotine doors were shut to make more space and any animal giving them an excuse to be euthanized was euthanized. Dogs who were difficult to handle, reactive, aggressive, any dog who the intake nurse couldn’t vaccinate without help, was euthanized immediately.

After our tour, Nancy and I asked Jessie to bring out the dogs who were housed in the court hold kennels. Our thinking was that the dogs who had been placed in kennels in this area were the most likely to be euthanized. The public is not allowed to look at the dogs in the court hold area for legal reasons. So the strays placed back there would also not be allowed to be viewed. Their only chance at getting out of MAS alive was for someone to select them from the 700 other animals posted online (includes the 350 in foster care). Unlikely.

Nancy snapped pictures and I played with the dogs. One of the dogs we met was Jolly Jack. He is just a year old and about 40 pounds. He lived up to his name with much exuberance, happily playing with us and play-bowing every dog who passed by. His entire being was joyful.

All of the dogs we met that day stayed on my heart as we spent time on the streets of Memphis seeing for ourselves the number of loose dogs, and as we left Tennessee and traveled up and down Georgia visiting shelters. Nancy kept scanning the Critical Memphis Animals page, watching as some of the dogs we met appeared on the page, and a handful of them found rescue.

And then on Thursday, Jolly Jack’s name appeared.

Maybe it was the week of seeing so many dogs I couldn’t help and meeting heroes giving so much, but I felt compelled to do something. That joyful young pup could not die just because he landed in a shelter devastated by practices put in place to manipulate numbers instead of saving dogs. MAS is in desperate need of leadership and a path forward from the self-created disaster they are living. So many dogs are losing their lives, dogs we met and spent time with, and Jolly Jack’s name on the list was a last straw for me.

I reached out to several rescues asking if they could pull Jack for me to foster. The one that said YES unequivocally and immediately was X-Port Paws. You can read a little about this incredible little rescue in a post I wrote a few years ago.

Michelle immediately applied to be a Pet Placement Partner and requested a provisional pull to get Jolly Jack. We were told that he had to be out of the building the same day Michelle requested. Tori and her bunch of equally passionate (and maybe crazy) advocates jumped into action, finding someone to go pick Jack up and someone to board him, while they figured out transport.

Tori and the others working with her are the real heroes. If not for them, the numbers at MAS would be FAR WORSE. It is hard for me to comprehend why the shelter policies make it so very difficult for rescues to help. Requiring that they pull with no medical records and get the dog out of the building within hours of pulling makes it extremely hard for any rescue not located in Memphis.

The Rescue Coordinator at MAS told me they have 400 rescues approved to pull dogs. I don’t understand why those 400 aren’t being begged to help the shelter get its population under control. And why everyone isn’t bending over backwards to make it possible for the rescues to help.

The people behind Critical Memphis Animals and the others like Tori and her band of heroes are too often the only way dogs like Jolly Jack can get out alive. This is not the way a shelter should function.

I am happy that Jack is out and grateful to everyone who helped make him safe. The woman who is boarding him says “Jolly is a keeper!!! He has an amazing temperament. Very happy dog.” Jolly Jack is safe. And now we just face the challenge of getting him from Memphis to me in Virginia.

There are some nice pledges for him on the Critical Memphis Animals page and I hope they pan out. I never understood until now what it meant for people to pledge money to a dog sitting in a shelter hoping for rescue. It’s meant to encourage rescues to pull the dog, even if they are worried about the expense. They promise to send the rescue the pledged amount once they pull the dog. It’s a way for people who can’t actually take the dog or who live in another area to help rescue the dog.

Michelle told me that she and Liz never count on pledges because too often they are just ‘farts in the wind’. They pull a dog regardless of pledges. Still, it would be great as Jolly Jack is being boarded really cheap ($15/day) but that will quickly add up, plus there is the expense of transport, neutering, vaccinations, deworming, preventatives, etc.

Nick and I are committed to paying whatever it costs to save this pup. I think I need to do this for my own soul to help me process all that we have seen these last weeks. Things are so very bad everywhere. There are just too many dogs.

I can’t help thinking that if these big organizations had just kept their meddling hands out of things and not tried to make shelters no-kill by numbers only, we wouldn’t be where we are. We would have made progress. Instead, the problem is worse. As they say, the only way out is through. Eventually every community and every shelter will have to come to terms with the growing stray population. It will get harder before it gets easier.

I plan to share the rescue of Jolly Jack on this blog and Substack, the good, bad, and ugly, and hopefully to its happy ending. I’ll give shorter updates in the Facebook group, Another Good Dog and on my writer Facebook page. But I’ll give the gory details here in blog posts because I’m learning as I go, and because I think the situation in Memphis is important for all of us to understand. Hopefully, it inspires Memphis residents to ask questions and get involved in saving their shelter and the animals in its care.

Until Each One Has a Home,

Cara

If you like what you read and want to support my writing, consider buying me a cup of coffee.

For information on my writing and books, visit CaraWrites.com.

Who Will Let the Dogs Out: Stories and Solutions for Shelters and Rescues is a primer for those new to the cause, an invitation to get involved, and a source of inspiration for those already working tirelessly to save lives. With stories of successful shelters, innovative strategies, and the key ingredients for success—strong leadership, veterinary access, and community engagement—it’s a celebration of what’s working and a call to scale those solutions nationwide. Learn more and get your copy and/or send one to a shelter or rescue on our website. Also available in paperback and e-book on Amazon.

If you’d like regular updates of all our foster dogs past and present, plus occasional dog care/training tips, and occasional foster cat updates (!) be sure to join the Facebook group, Another Good Dog.

And if you’d like to know where all these dogs come from and how you can help solve the crisis of too many unwanted dogs in our shelters, visit WhoWillLetTheDogsOut.org and subscribe to our blog where we share stories of our travels to shelters, rescues, and dog pounds.

If you can’t get enough foster dog stories, check out my book: Another Good Dog: One Family and Fifty Foster Dogs. Or its follow up that takes you to the shelters in the south One Hundred Dogs & Counting: One Woman, Ten Thousand Miles, and a Journey Into the Heart of Shelters and Rescues.

I love to hear from readers and dog-hearted people! Email me at carasueachterberg@gmail.com.

If you’d like to support the work we do (and save the rescue and me some money), shop our Amazon wishlist. We are currently in need of chicken and chicken-byproduct-free, high-quality food, puppy treats, large dog beds (or cover replacements any size – we can cut the memory foam pieces I have to fit).

If you’d like to take a vacation with your whole pack, consider visiting one of our two dog-WELCOMING vacation rentals. Visits BringDogs.com to learn more.

Many of the pictures on my blog are taken by photographer Nancy Slattery. If you’d like to connect with Nancy to take gorgeous pictures of your pup (or your family), contact: nancyslat@gmail.com.